Institutionalised
Only one entry today - been busy discussing "schooling provision" for our four year old with earnest women in sensible shoes - I tried an experiment - Getting a child "institutionalised" for school is a positive thing in their view. The ONLY benefit of going to a mainstream school that was mentioned - and mentioned repeatedly was that of "socialisation with her peers". Mrs Du Toit has written much sense on this (though her search engine seems to let her down and I can't find her last jewel about what she thinks of this argument).
I think we will continue to look at alternatives.